You’re allowed to change your mind (especially when life changes)

You know when you look back at an old photo and think, why did I choose that haircut / outfit / paint colour?
At the time, it felt right. You loved it. And then life moved on — and so did you.

Wedding choices can be exactly the same. Something you felt excited about a year ago might not land in the same way months later. That doesn’t mean it was a bad decision. It just means you’re human — and paying attention to how things feel now.

I see this a lot with flowers. Couples will say, slightly nervously, “We loved it when we chose it… but something’s shifted.” And honestly, that makes total sense. Weddings sit alongside real life. Joy, loss, growth, perspective — all of it quietly shapes what feels meaningful.

Here’s a suggestion that might be useful:
around six months before your wedding, pause and gently check in with yourselves.
Ask:

• Does this still feel like us?

• Has anything happened in our lives that’s changed what feels important?

• On a scale of 1–10, how connected do we feel to this now?

This isn’t about tearing everything up or second-guessing yourselves. It’s about allowing space for your wedding — and your flowers — to reflect who you are at that moment, not just who you were when you first started planning.

Changing your mind doesn’t mean you’re behind.
It usually means you’re listening — and that’s where the most meaningful decisions come from.